Kris asks James for 'space'
MANILA, Philippines - Actress-television host Kris Aquino is moving out of the home she shares with husband and basketball star James Yap amid a controversy over a recent encounter with a rumored girlfriend of the latter.
Aquino said she and her two sons, Joshua and Baby James, will be staying with her elder sister Pinky for the meantime.
But she clarified she and Yap have not formally split up, and that they are just taking some time off to sort out their problems.
"I'm not saying that the marriage is over. In my heart, gusto ko the marriage to work for our kids. I'm not putting a period, I'm not saying this is the end of the road. I'm hoping and praying maayos namin lahat pero kailangan ko rin ng space," she told co-host Boy Abunda at The Buzz.
Aquino also said she still loves Yap no matter how rocky their marriage has been.
"I love him and he knows I still love him. I've never given him any reason to doubt my fidelity. I just want the same thing in return," she said.
"Hindi naman puwedeng ako lang ang nagmamahal… Ako lang umiintindi. It takes two for this marriage to work. I want him to make me feel I'm really (his) wife, that (he's) a responsible husband and a loving father and that this marriage has a future."
Recent reports came out that Aquino confronted and shouted insults at Mayen Austria, a female fan of Yap, who plays for the Purefoods TJ Giants. Aquino claimed the girl has been calling and sending her husband gifts.
A witness said the actress showed up at the residence of the Austrias in Valle Verde in Pasig City, and swore at Mayen and her mother.
Aquino had denied this.
"Confrontation"
In the interview with The Buzz, Aquino recounted what happened during the day of her encounter with Austria.
She said she was having lunch with Yap in their home when Yap's phone rang.
"When he answered, I heard a girl crying. I could hear their conversation because it was quiet in the house. Sinasabi noong girl, ginawa ko naman lahat... then James answered na kung ayaw sa ‘yo, 'wag mo pagpilitan ang sarili mo," Aquino narrated.
She said she asked Yap who called and he told her that it was Austria.
"Sabi ni James nagsabi sa kanya na iniwan daw ng isang guy and 'di alam ang gagawin. I asked him kung kilala niya iyong guy, he said no. So nagtaka ako, I said bakit ikaw ang iniiyakan?"
"I pointed out to James it was not proper. Baka she (Austria) was under the illusion that I'm not real, that I'm just a TV personality. So gusto ko puntahan para pakita na flesh and blood ako… tao ako... at misis ako," Aquino added.
And so she said she went to see Austria, who lives two streets away from their house.
She said she rang the doorbell and Austria's mom came out.
"I said ma'am, I wanted to let you know, your daughter has been calling my husband and I'm not comfortable about it," she said.
"Never ako nagmura, never nanlait. Pinaramdam ko lang ang aking displeasure, siyempre asawa ako," said Aquino.
Apology
After narrating the incident, Aquino took the opportunity to apologize to Austria's mother.
"Mrs. Austria, on behalf of my family, hindi naman nga po kayo ang nanggulo sa asawa ko, kaya humihingi ako ng tawad sa inyo, pati kayo nadamay dito."
"Hindi ko gustong saktan kayo, ang kagalit ko po ay iyong anak niyo."
Aquino reiterated that her conversation with Austria's mom was "very calm the whole time."
She said it was just unfortunate that the incident has been blown out of proportion and turned into a major issue where her brother, presidential aspirant Senator Benigno "Noynoy" Aquino III, was dragged into.
"Sana po klaro sa inyong lahat. Hindi po kami nagpa-interview at nag-text tungkol dito. Pamilya nila. Napilitan lang akong magsalita dahil dinamay na ang kapatid ko."
Not a political issue
Aquino went on to defend her brother Noynoy on air even if she had been ordered by ABS-CBN Broadcasting Corp.'s management to refrain from talking about the presidential candidate during her entertainment shows to avoid being accused of bias.
She said she got offended that her brother was being "politically attacked" and dragged into the issue.
"’Yong sinasabi nilang karapat-dapat ba sila sa Malacañang? 'Di naman ako ang binoboto n’yo, si Noynoy. Noong 'di approve si Noynoy sa way of life ko, 'di niya ko kinunsinti. He is of good moral character," she said.
Aquino said her brother has been counseling her and James on their marital problems.
"’Noy has been trying to help salvage our marriage," she said.
The love-hate relationship of Aquino and Yap has always made headlines.
In 2007, they went through serious arguments after Yap was rumored to have had a romantic affair with Hope Centeno, one of the receptionists at the Belo Medical Clinic then. Yap denied the rumors.
space
Yes, tama lang iyon Kris, take time to think and evaluate if it's really worth it to save the marriage. If James really loves you, he will find a way to win you back. He should consider your feelings first, more than any body else. You're the wife, it is just right to feel that way and doubt the reason why that girl confide to your husband. Pray for God's guidance and He will enlighten you.
Just give him an ultimatum,
Just give him an ultimatum, if he really wanna works on the marraige or not, thats the end of it, if his willing is under your term as simple as it is, okey people its year of the millinium woman now a days dont have to endure over and over of husband fidility,if your husband cheat on you for the 1st time right away give him an untimatum and if he done it again for the second time, your stupid to stay with him, it will never work,just get rid of him you better off by yourself and your kids its more healthy that way.
And for nonoy political carrier this is no effect at all, this are two defferent issue, be honest nonoy is the most desirable for people to vote than any other presidencial candidates, for those idiots comment about nonoy background of education and mediocare job experience, so what if he dont get an award as you think is important;what happen with our past president who suppost to be a comlaoude in thier education that done nothing on thier term when they were in the office, instead they make a bank for thier self, if nonoy family is wealthy it means he dont need to bank money for hemself cause he already have one right. instead he will focus that money to the poeple of the philippines who needed the most.
PASENSYA NA KAYO KRIS MAY EDAD NA PERO ISIP BATA PA
PASESNSYA NA KAYO KAY KRIS MAY PAGKAISIP BATA PA KASI. PARA BANG MAY TRAUMA NOONG MALIIT PA SIYA. AKALA MO PALAGI SIYANG INAAPI. SAKA MAY PAGKAINNGITIN SIYA DAHIL GUSTO NIYA PAGMAYROON YONG IBA KAILANGAN MAYROON DIN SIYA. ANG DALI PANG UTOUTOIN. NAKIKITA NAMAN NINYO KUNG PAPAANO UTO-UTOIN NI BOY ABUNDA AT SAKAY NA SAKAY SIYA. UTO-UTO NGA. KAYA SANA PAGPASENSYA PO NINYO SIYA. MARAMING SALAMAT PO.
Bakit?
Bakit sa tuwing may away si Kris at James ay lagi niya itong nilalayasan?Lagi niya itong iniiwan...hindi ba pwedeng isolve ang problem na magkasama pa rin sila ng bahay?kawawa na man ang mga anak dahil for sure nagtataka sila sa mga nangyayari...
boy abunda
ito namang bestfriend nyang i boy abunda kinokonsinte pa itong si kris. BOY ABUNDA IPAKO SA KRUS...MGA BAKLA TALAGA ISA RIN SALUT SA LIPUNAN...NAGTATAKA LANG AKO DI NAMAN NANGANGANAK ANG MGA BAKLA PERO DUMADAMI ANG MGA BAKLA SA MUNDO.....PEACE MGA BAKLA.
magbago ka
baka sa mga susunud na araw mabalitaan nalang natin nagpakamatay na si kris aquino dahil sa sobrang kahihiyang pinaggagawa nya sa buhay nya, nandyan nayung kumabit ke IPE, JOEY MARQUEZ, manugud ng babae, nagkarun ng TULU ay nako kris nakakahiya ka talaga, ikaw ang nakakasira sa pamilyang aquino....tangapin muna kris na nagugustuhan kalang ng mga lalaki dahil sa pera mo, ginagawa kalang parausan ng mga lalaki. magpasalamat ka nga dapat ke james at pinakasalan ka nya sa kabila ng mga kahihiyang ginawa mo sa buhay mo.
past is past
Hi Cris,
Your right,past is past we talk about the present,Lahat naman tayo me chance na baguhin lahat ng nagagawang pagkakamali sa buhay natin,Bakit sino bang walang baho na nagawa sa buhay sino ba perpekto
sinong di nagkakamali,ang mahalaga ginawa mo ang tama tinuwid mo ang mga pagkakamali mo at harapin ang kasalukuyan,i feel na u do your best para mabago ang buhay mo in a relationship.Siguro naman pinagsisihan mo na lahat yun nakaraan.Tama lang tirhan mo ng respeto ang sarili mo para paulit ulit na lang na saktan ka.Ikaw naman makakaramdam nyan eh kung totoo o hindi ikaw ang asawa ikaw ang kasama sa araw araw.Siguro tatagan mo na lang ang loob mo kasi ina ka at manalig at kumapit ka sa Panginoon para makapagdesisyon ka ng tama.For better or worst kasi ang sinumpaan nyo sa harap ng Diyos.
LIAR
KRIS IS A BIG LIAR. SHE EVEN LIED TO HER MOM WHEN HE FIRST HAVE RELATIONSHIP WITH PHILIP, WHO IS MARRIED. SHE DENIED IT FROM HER MOM. SHE LIED rga
KRIS IS A GOOD PERSON
KRIS HAS ALWAYS BEEN A GOOD PERSON IN AND OUT OF CAM. LIKE WHAT NOY2 SAID " MADALDAL SI KRIS PERO DI MAINITIN ANG ULO SA BAHAY." I NEVER HEARD HER TELLING LIES.. DI SIYA PERPECTO, LAHAT NAMAN TAYO DI BA? PERO HINDI SIYA SINUNGALING!
SHE'S HURTING NOW AND SOME PEOPLE (WHO THINK FOR THEMSELVES AS PERFECT!)ARE ATTACKING HER WITH INSULTS. MAAWA NAMAN KAU.
IM A FAN ANG FOREVER WILL BE...NOYNOY WILL DEFINITELY BE MY FAMILY'S PRESIDENT, NO DOUBT!!!
I LOVE KRIS! I DONT HATE
I LOVE KRIS! I DONT HATE HER.. YOU KNOW WHY?? SHE'S NOT A LIAR...EVERYTIME SHE GOT INVOLVE IN ANY CONTROVERSIES (BAD OR GOOD) SHE ALWAYS SPEAK UP FOR THE TRUTH.
SO KAYONG MAHILIG MANGLAIT KAY KRIS, LOOK AT YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR BAKA MAS GRABE PA ANG DUNGIS NG KATAWON NIYO KAYSA KAY KRIS.
AND THAT MAYEN AUSTRIA WILL CALL JAMES FOR COUSELING, I DONT THINK SO ITS THE RIGHT THING TO DO.. DOES SHE NOT HAVE ANY CLOSED FRIENDS TO SHARE IT WITH?? SO WHAT ABOUT HER NANAY??