On the need for children's sex education

Posted at 07/04/2010 9:33 AM | Updated as of 07/04/2010 9:35 AM

We, in GABRIELA, Gabriela Women’s Party and SALINLAHI Alliance for Children’s Concerns, are united in our stand that to educate children on reproductive health and sexuality is imperative. In these times when children are exposed everyday to myriad of information on sex in the television, internet and other mass media, it is past the time to ask if sex should be discussed in formal education. 

The values formation of the children is a concern of all institutions in the society. The family, academe, church, media, civil society and the government, are all responsible in teaching and molding the youth. Therefore, sex education in the classrooms does not necessarily filch the parents of their duty, nor excuse them of their responsibility. Instead, it affirms the state’s obligation to inform and educate the children on reproductive concerns, in support of parents especially those who may also not have the appropriate education and information to guide their children.

The baseless assumption that sex education in schools would make children “sex-obsessed” only proves that there is indeed a need for it. “Sex education” is stigmatized because the prevalent connotation on sex is that is “dirty”, “prohibited”, and “bastos”. Thus, appropriate education regarding the subject is necessary to help children sort out information that impresses in them misguided connotations pertaining to sex. 

Further, an appropriate sex education program will help children develop healthy and scientific concepts about their bodies and sexuality, even at a young age. This is an important foundation in protecting children from potential sexual abuse and exploitation. We have seen children who allowed perpetrators to touch their private body parts under the guise of “playing.” We have even seen children who innocently crossed the line of propriety in their games of exploring each other’s body parts and role playing what they see in the media of adults in compromising acts.

We would like to emphasize that whether in the formal or informal educational setting, sex education should be viewed in the context of the rights and welfare of children, especially girl children. Not only will it protect them from potential abuse and exploitation, but it is also an integral component of their comprehensive reproductive rights. We believe that teaching women at a young age on reproductive health and sexuality would aid them in avoiding unwanted pregnancies, sexually transmitted diseases and maternal death.

The Department of Education (DepEd)’s Memorandum No. 26, allowing the use of teaching modules on sex education, could be a positive step, granting that DepEd will conduct an intensive process of consultation with different stakeholders before full implementation. This will ensure that the program is not implemented mechanically, and all arguments are heard.  In our part, GABRIELA, Gabriela Women’s Party and SALINLAHI are willing to become part of the consultation process and share our extensive experience in gender and sexuality education with children and parents. 

Hopefully, from this pilot program we can draw important lessons to develop a more comprehensive gender and sexuality educational curriculum in the future. Children are never too young to know of their rights. And it’s never too early for all institutions in the society to work for the protection of their rights. 
 

(Sgd). Lana Linaban, GABRIELA secretary general

           Rep. Emmi de Jesus, Gabriela Women’s Party

           Sophia Garduce, SALINLAHI spokesperson


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4 comments

LOL...How do you stop nature?

by pinoy27 on Sun, 07/04/2010 - 11:36
Here he goes again,the know it all guy, the hyporcrite, the confuse fellow and the US citizen who doesn't pay his taxes in Pinas giving out advises and cursing to Pinoys at home. Kids nowadays are smarter than you smagul!
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Hehee....It's quite obvious that your parents failed you, pre. That is why you are so against on the anti-corruption agenda, kasi you don't know what's like and never stood up to what is wrong. Pampered ka sa iyong buhay....lol.

Sabi mo, free speech ito. Then learn to filter things as you hear them with reasons.

"When injustice becomes law, Resistance becomes duty!" - Thomas Jefferson

Pesteng yawa strikes again - smagul

Here he goes again,the know it all guy, the hyporcrite, the confuse fellow and the US citizen who doesn't pay his taxes in Pinas giving out advises and cursing to Pinoys at home. Kids nowadays are smarter than you smagul!


Good thinking...

Tama lang na turuan ang mga teenagers natin about SEX Education..we are now in new generation..ibang level na ang mga utak ng kabataan..maraming napapahamak na kabataan dahil sa pagiging INOSENTE..they must know the good and bad about sex..yang mga pari na yan puro sila kontra about this SEX EDUCATION,tapos sila pa ang nang aabuse ng pagiging inosente ng mga kabataan..hindi naman porke ituturo sa mga kabataan ang SEX Education eh mawawala na ang kulturang Pilipino..nasa tamang paraan yan kung pano mo ituturo...


What?

What's the problem with educating parents to educate their children in regards to this awkward situation? This is not a government responsibility but a parental upbringing. Should the classroom teach them also about the birds and the bees? You give up the rights of being a parents, you gave up the rights for your children to be indoctrinated by fools! This is wrong and this issue is part of an experiment that have failed many times in a higher level of education IN THE PAST, which is why the answer to all this belongs to parenting. As they stated,.... "Children are never too young to know of their rights." then my answer to this is, what gives them the rights to take the children rights of being innocents? Have these peeps been indoctrinated by the NWO? LOL....crazy, wacko's! Same peeps that screams about global warming....same freaking group of dumb ass that wants to control natures flow. Please ladies, know when you are being used!

"When injustice becomes law, Resistance becomes duty!" - Thomas Jefferson